Wedding vows: Tips & Examples

couple holding flowers

Writing your wedding vows is not for the faint of heart, regardless of whether you're newly engaged and eager to put your sentiments down on paper or it's the evening before your ceremony and you've pushed it off as long as you possibly can. Some of your most private thoughts will be found in these words. They contain promises for the future in addition to being symbols of your current love and respect for your relationship.

Vows at a wedding are deeply personal. Because these are the words that will bring you together and represent your pledge to one another, take your time selecting the appropriate phrase for your ceremony or even come up with it yourself.



Tips to write Vows

  • Avoid waiting until the last moment. Your friends and family will all be there as you say your wedding vows. Putting things together last-minutely is the very last thing you should do.Start as soon as possible is what we advise. You'll have enough time to write, edit, and perhaps even somewhat put off getting started.
  • Decide on a structure in advance. You'll most likely want to keep your vows a little bit of a mystery until the ceremony if you're like most couples. However, it is a good idea to decide on a certain structure, length, and other basic rules. One of you could be fine with comedy while the other may not be. To ensure that you both keep to the same number of characters, more or less, you should also agree on the length of your vows. Of course, nothing prevents you from writing your vows jointly, which some people find to be quite romantic.
  • Don't attempt to write everything within one session. This is a terrific suggestion for those who don't write frequently. The world's top authors occasionally take pauses from their work. They can then return to it later on with a new perspective, a fresh outlook, or new inspiration. Spend a few hours writing one day, then put the pen down. Return a day or two later, write a little bit more, and then stop once more. Continue doing this until you feel that your wedding vows are the best they can be.
  • Have a family member or trustworthy friend read your vows. This advice may not be necessary for you if writing comes easy to you. If not, it's a good idea to have a close friend or loved one read your vows to you before you say them on your big day. Even better, ask them to recite the vows to you aloud so you can hear the wording, rhythm, and inflections.
  • Respond to your queries. Another piece of advice for those of you who struggle with writing is this. Make a list of questions, then respond to each one. This is a fantastic approach to motivating yourself using the information you already know. Here are some excellent examples:  How did you two meet?  When did he or she say "I love you" for the first time? What connects you, exactly? etc.


Wedding Vows For Her Examples

man speaking vows


  • I adore you with a passion that cannot be put into words; it can only be shown through kisses, looks, and years of adventure spent by your side.
  • You adore me unconditionally and fulfill me in ways I never imagined possible. I pledge to listen to you and learn from you, to support you and accept your support, starting now. I shall rejoice in your victories and lament your losses as if they were my own. I shall adore you and revel in your love for me for the rest of our lives, my spouse.
  • I'm glad that we will be spending every day together on this trip, proud to be your devoted wife, and eager to learn what comes next in our life.
  • I am honored to marry you since you are the love of my life. I swear to help you achieve your goals and to always be there for you.
  • I love you to the moon and back. And much, much more.
  • In front of your entire family, I choose you to be my wife today. It is an honour for me to be your wife and live with you. I swear to support, uplift, and cherish you always. For better or worse, in good health or bad, rich or poor, I'll be at your side for the rest of our lives. You are the only person I have for today and every day.
  • My wife, I invite you to be a part of my life. I pledge to always be in your corner because you are the most loving, brilliant, and caring person I have ever encountered. I feel we can accomplish anything if we work together. I can't wait to work with you to create a lovely life together.
  • As my spouse, I promise to respect, adore and appreciate you at all times.
  • Even though I say "I do" today, I mean "I will." I'll grab your hand and be there for you through good times and bad. I pledge to work hard for your pleasure, prosperity, and grin. I'll always love you.
  • You are the fulfilment of every dream I've ever had, and I look forward to the future we get to create together.
  • Give me your horrible hair days, lengthy commutes, burned coffee, and misplaced keys.
  • Give me your every day, and I'll give you my love to make everything better.
  • While I'm with you, everything else recedes into the background. You fill my senses with delight. You are my life, my most precious gift. I consider myself extremely fortunate to have you as my loving wife.
  • From this day forward, my life will be inextricably linked with yours. My dreams are your dreams, and I'll construct everything around you.

Wedding Vows For Him Examples

Women writing vows


  • You are the first person I want to see in the morning and the last person I want to see at night. I'm looking forward to adoring the little things, like your eyes when you toss your hair. Make a wish for us by tossing a penny into a fountain. You have fulfilled my dream.
  • I promise to always keep you safe, to stand by you in your trials, and to turn to you for help when I need it.
  • My hubby, I'm madly in love with you. Not only will my love for you increase with each passing day, but I will also be your buddy and partner every step of the way. I will be there for you at all hours of the day and night, rich or poor, sick or well. I believe in, admire, adore, and respect you. I vow to share my aspirations and dreams with you as we create our lives together. You are everything to me, my sweetheart.
  • You know me better than anybody else in the world, and yet you still adore me. You are my dearest buddy as well as my real love. Even now, there's a part of me that can't believe I'm the one who gets to marry you.
  • How fortunate am I to call you mine? Every day, your love and faith make me a better person. For all of the times we've been together, there has always been a mutual understanding that can only be conveyed when two people love one other. You were there for me during my most difficult times. You inspired me to grow. You aided me in believing in myself and becoming the person I am today. I know I can accomplish anything in your arms and at your side. I'm honored to have you as my spouse.
  • I swear to make my life yours forever and to create my dreams around you.
  • I pledge to be the person I see in your eyes now, tomorrow, and forever.
  • I've discovered my home in your gaze. I found my love in your heart. I've discovered my soulmate in you. I am entire, whole, and living because of you. You always make me chuckle. You allowed me to weep. You are my every breath and heartbeat.
  • I am overjoyed to be able to tell you that I do, will, and always will give you anything I have.

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